I know you all have the best, warm-hearted intentions. but.
please stop talking about coming out
please stop encouraging (pressuring) people to come out
please stop saying that you don’t care about people’s sexualities.
please stop feeling entitled to information about people’s sexualities.
please stop being upset that they “didn’t tell you sooner”
you have no idea what this is all about. how could you.
do you know what it’s like to have to fight for your desires because you have been taught that they are wrong? sick. unnatural. temporary. unthinkable. depraved. do you know how hard it is to even “come out” to yourself? do you have any idea what kind of risks this disclosure might put someone in?
I am glad you want people to feel safe. but the world isn’t always a safe place for lgbt people. it usually isn’t